As a parent, you’re in charge of your child’s initial programming. You’re inevitably going to screw something up. You’re only human.
That’s why the most important feature you can program into your child is self-love. Only with ample self-love can they reprogram themselves later, undo the errors as adults. Self-love and self-healing are the same thing.
In short: Good parenting is all about installing fail-safes.